What if
everyone basically in the depth of their
heart
wishes each other and themselves the best?
…
And what if
conflicts by far the most relates to deep
misunderstandings?
That it is so is my firm belief and experience in work with couples therapy as well as conflict management.
And it is my experience, that by getting to know, experience and understand these misunderstandings, it is possible to open up to, that life, love and mutual appreciation can flow freely…
Therefore my focus is to get to know and understand these deep misunderstandings, that conflicts far more often than not relates to and unfolds around; In love-relations, as well as other relationships (among friends, family, neighbors, at work, etc.).
And when you get to see end understand the good wishes of both oneself and the other, and simultaneously see and understand the deepest root of the conflict, then, in the challenges we face, it is much easier to find a way that gives space and appreciation to the deepest needs and longings of all the parties involved.